Take the bottle gourd cubes in a cooking pan and add enough water up to the level of vegetable and cook in medium flame. When water starts boiling, simmer it and continue cooking till the pieces become soft.
Next heat a separate vessel adding jaggery and 1/2 of water, let the jaggery dissolve and become little thick. (No need of any consistency check.) Once done transfer the jaggery syrup to the cooked bottle gourd cubes and continue cooking for a while.(You can strain the syrup if it has any impurities)
Next include second extract coconut milk and subsequently medium rava to the payasa. Combine everything well. Finally add first extract coconut milk and as it starts boiling switch off flame.
Heat a seasoning pan with ghee and dry fruit pieces. As the dry fruits get roasted transfer them to the payasa.
Very healthy and yummy bottle gourd payasa is ready. Serve hot as dessert and enjoy.